One of my top recommendations for clients and friends who
are dating is to be yourself. Although you may not list authenticity as a top quality
for a partner or friend, recent
research suggests it is one of the qualities that we seek in others.
Authentic people are generally really fun to be around and easy to read. They
tend to be less stressed and more satisfied. They do not trigger red flags like
the inauthentic.Authenticity is basically the opposite of being a liar, a fake or a fraud. It's being yourself, being honest, being who you truly are. According to psychologist Robert Biswas-Diener, you can increase your authenticity quotient.
So let's look at how you know if you are being authentic and how to work on being more authentic, while avoiding the trap of overplaying your authenticity.
1. Talk the talk. Say what you really think. Honor your values, beliefs and ideals above people pleasing and despite possibly making a few waves. If you believe it's important to reduce your carbon footprint, say so. Read more here...
